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Monday, February 18, 2008

Note of advise-
This post may contain some text which will prove to be too much for certain people.
Unless you're reading with an open mind and liberal thinking- pls do not proceed.

Hubby was away from Friday morning to Sunday night. Together with his Singapore Power soccer team, they went up to K.L for official soccer match.

I was left alone with Raez- my faithful companion.

Luckily there was my in-laws- who volunter to sleep over at our place to temankan kita. At first, I was a bit reluctant- yelah... bukan ape- kekok aje....

Anyway- I was snooked man....
My mil suruh I tido- 'takpelah, Suria (what they called me) tido dulu, biar Aez ngan kita. Nanti dia dah tido, mak hantar pat bilik.'

Dengan hati yang berat, I leave my son with my in laws in the other room. Hoping for him to sleep next to me. Maklumlah...hubby dah go K.L- dah takde teman tido- miss his snore.

Tersadar to check my hp- the time dah 3plus in the morning- takdepun Aez. Took a peek, only to see Iwan (my bro in law) outside in the living room. My son & in laws dah tido pun. Wapiang... tipah tetipu.....

Woke up at 7.30 (although its Sat- tak keja lagi) this is wat I meant. Depan in laws takleh membuta lama lama, nanti kena bebel dah....
Lepas mandi, we went to sarapan and main playground. The rest of the day was spent at home till late afternoon.
In laws went back for awhile to clear the laundry at home- pasalkan on Sun we going to Pasir Gudang.

At abt 7.30 p.m, after mandi, I decided to bring Aez to Causeway point.
We spent abt 1 hour in Kiddy Palace- playing with all the toys.
Nasib baik I had with me the light weight pram- fold it and place aside. Apelagi- mam terkejar kejarlah with Aez dalam Kiddy Palace tu. The place is big and the toys section is huge- excited my son dibuatnya. He was screaming and running around- stopping to sit down and play with the toys which caught his eyes.
To think back- maybe we should save money & dun buy any toys. Nak main aje- go Kiddy Palace- hahaha- sengkek seh mama.

The time dah close to 9p.m. I pratically had to tie Aez in his pram- pasal dia tanak keluar from that place. Kesianlah tengok he cry, I tried to pujuk him by umpankan he with the batman ride- punyalah mahal- S$1 per ride. kejap pulak tu. Maybe 1 ke 2 min.

Again, have to force him out of the ride- dah S$2, donate pat Batman tu....
Anyway, dah terlanjur pat sana, I decided to buy my foundation at Watsons.
Have to strap Aez to his pram, he cried out loud, bukan pasal apa- because he wants to touch & jatuhkan all the display. It took me just a mere 5 min to get my foundation & powder, proceed to queue up to pay.

What happen next make my blood boil lah.... I was the 3rd in the queue, a young chinese women in front of me (she look like she's in her 20's), uses her finger to close her ears- kononnya aez crying is so deafening. I thought it was rude of her to do that. I kept quiet. She then shouted to her mum, (who was standing less than 5 steps away from her to queue up as she cannot tahan the noise. (wait until you hear the F1 car race- you b*t*h). I cannot contain my anger anymore, on top of my voice, I say out loud ('ah? canot stand the noise is it? as if you have never cried like this before in your life, dun forget you were once a baby- and you will have to look after one someday in your life- unless you canot get pregnant')- as I was doing this, I proceeded to pay- because the b*t*h move out of the queue.
At this point, I heard her saying that I've cut queue....
C*e*y.... masih ada hati nak mengomel eh? After paying for my purchase, I say out in a more than nasty tone- " too much ah you... you move out of the queue cos you cannot stand the crying- it's only my right that I move up the queue..."
Kalau ikutkan hati, dah kena tendang terajang dah the girl... I'm not a gangster- but dun try to step on my tail- an angry mother can do anything beyond anyone's imagination. If she had say anything to defend or iritate me further, memang pat situ jugak I will give her satu penumbuk 'agung'....GERAM sehh...

After that, I walk out of Watson's and proceed to meet my in laws at the train station....
Pasal terlalu marah, I ceritakan to my mil- guess her reaction- she clapped her hands after hearing what happened.
Sporting jugak my mil ni... tak sangka...

A message to all those people out there...

You will not know what exactly a child wants- unless you have been with him/her for sometime
Not all mother purposely let their child cry out loud without trying to calm them down.
There's always a reason to why mothers do what they do- as they know their child best.
You do not have any right to reprimand any child - cause they are not yours.
You will only understand when you're put in the situation- unless of course you're a spolit brat who only know how to give birth but end up having someone else taking care of your child.

Giving birth is only the beginning of motherhood- but actual motherhood itself is bringing up your own baby and seeing to his every needs (YOURSELF)